Going on a vacation with your children is an exciting break from the normal routines of life. For those who aren’t in a relationship with their child’s other parent any longer, vacations can be a time of challenges, but some people may not realize exactly what those challenges entail.
It’s easy to focus on the logistical nightmare that comes with trying to plan a vacation under these terms. There’s another facet of the vacation that you need to consider—helping your child to stay in contact with their other parent.
Consider time zones
Depending on how far from home you’re going, you may end up in a different time zone. For example, if you’re going to Los Angeles for vacation, you’ll be three hours behind Florida. That would mean that communication times would have to be set carefully.
Consider the child’s age
It’s much easier for communication to happen when a child is older and has their own phone. For younger children, you’ll have to balance the child’s normal schedule with a possible communication schedule.
Consider sharing memories
Taking pictures of your children for your ex might not be on the top of your to-do list for the vacation, but it’s a nice gesture. It gives your children the option of sharing the experiences they had with their other parent.
It’s also critical for you to ensure that you’re complying with all the parenting plan points as you set up the vacation. This may include geographic restrictions and other terms so be sure to review the plan completely. Working with someone who can assist with this matter may be beneficial.